we found the love

In rejecting the lives of our mothers, we found ourselves looking for stray volts of mother-love in the very places they would never be found: gin, men, the college, our own mothers, and one another.

我们抛弃我们母辈的生活方式，发现我们自己正是在这些地方寻找到她们从来就没有找到过的母爱所迷失的激情：杜松子酒，男人们，大学，我们自己的母亲，以及我们彼此。

Be adventurous. Scientists have found that the parts of the brain that are activated when we first fall in love are re-stimulated by adventure and novelty.

敢于冒险。科学家发现当我们第一次坠入爱河之后，我们的大脑就会受到新一轮的刺激，对冒险以及其他的新奇的事物感兴趣。

We found a nice link between the reward system and the pain modulating system, suggesting that love does really work in reducing pain.

我们发现在奖励系统和疼痛调节系统之间有很精妙的联系，这让我们知道爱情的确能减少疼痛。