have something on someone

Research has shown that we tend to have fonder, happier memories of times we spent with someone doing something fun (like going on a trip), than if we had bought ourselves a new flat screen TV.

研究表明，当我们和其他人一起体验有趣的事比如说旅行时，我们要比买一台新的平板电视要更开心快乐一些。

Have you ever changed your mind, backed out of something or even given up on a dream... because you were afraid of what someone else might think of you?

你是否因为在意别人对自己的看法而曾经改变过自己想法，背对自己的承诺，放弃自己的梦想？

If you 'bond' with someone on a negative issue, they will feel that they have found a partner in their distress and they will look for you every time they feel something negative," he states.

如果你和某人因为一些消极的事情而变得亲密的话，他们会觉得在痛苦中找到了同伴，这样，他们每次感到消极的时候都会来找你倾诉。