deal deal out

You’re making too big a deal out of one rejection, the same way you’re making too big a deal out of one holiday.

一次被拒，你也太会发挥了，同样，一个节日你说得出这么多名堂。

There have been many helpful books published on how to deal with difficult people. Moreover, people have come out openly on discussion forums and seminars, on ways to deal with narcissistic people.

近年来越来越多的自恋型人格障碍案例被曝光.也有很多如何与难相处的人相处的帮助类书籍出版,人们在论坛或研讨会上也公开讨论与自恋者相处的多种途径.研究并提高你对这个问题的认识,你将发现自己会更有效的处理与自恋倾向的人的关系.

Just learn to deal with them as they come up, and figure out what's most important to deal with right now, and take everything in stride.

我们只有当它们出现了就去处理，想好立刻要处理哪件最重要的事情，然后从容不迫地对待一切。