come to one self

Self-control is one of the hardest things to achieve in modern life, but in the course of my research I've come across seven key tools that can help us to resist temptation.

自我控制是现代生活中最艰难的事情之一，但是在我的研究中，我已经找到七个主要的工具可以帮助我们抵御诱惑。

If suffering did not exist, it would be necessary to create it, because without it one cannot come to right self-remembering.

如果痛苦不存在，将有必要去创造它，因为没有它一个人不能达到正确的记得自己。

So, Christ is that one to whom the little children can come, and I think she cultivates that childlike sense in her self-presentation.

基督是个连小孩都能沟通的人，我认为奥康纳在她的，自我呈现中也营造了那种童稚感。