TO BE TOUGH LOVE

But even if you love reading, it can still be tough to find the time to sit quietly with a book.

但是即使你喜欢看书，在生活中却也常常难以找到时间安静得阅读。

Or would it be best to give him some tough love and teach him to take care of himself, even though it might be hard for him to begin with?

还是说做好的解决方法是给他严厉的爱并教会他照顾好自己，尽管那对他来说是一件很困难的事呢？

Richard Reeves, director of Demos, argued that "tough love" was successful because it built up a child's self-esteem but also taught them to be restrained and respectful.

德莫斯的主任理查德·里夫斯认为，“严厉的爱”之所以成功，是因为它为孩子建立了自尊，也教会他们自制和礼貌。