I can do this here

Sometimes he can be boring to me, but now, instead I do feel great to have him around on this special day here.

有时我觉得他很无聊，但现在在这个特别的日子里有他在我身边，我真的感觉很好。

I offer this idea here not so much in the mindset of "Do it this way, rather than in a database," but as a design alternative you can use — or not use, as you choose.

在这里提供这个思路并不是建议您“采用这种方式，而不使用数据库”，这只是一种可供选择的方式，是否采用它由您决定。

Database optimization can become a pretty advanced topic quickly, and I don't have nearly the space here to do this topic full justice.

数据库优化很快会成为一个前沿话题，我几乎没有空间在这里完全公正地做这个话题。